GUIDELINES FOR ELECTRONIC MEETINGS

Al-Anon Family Groups acknowledge the potential and value of the Internet for communicating information about Al-Anon/Alateen, offering hope and comfort to the families and friends of alcoholics. Al-Anon neither endorses, opposes nor regulates any computer on-line service provider.

On a three-year trial basis (1996-98), on-line meetings were being listed with the World Service Office (WSO) Group Records so that members or potential newcomers interested in attending electronic meetings will know how to access them. These meetings have a group contact and receive WSO newsletters, announcements and the WSO Appeal Letters as all registered Al- Anon/Alateen groups do in order that members attending these meetings or the meeting itself can support the WSO (Seventh Tradition).

On-line meetings, like all Al-Anon/Alateen groups, agree to abide by the spirit of the Twelve Traditions. Any Al-Anon or Alateen members desiring to attend an electronic meeting can attend if able to access the meeting through their Internet or computer subscriber service.

Overview:

Based upon the long-established value of attending meetings to the personal recovery of Al-Anon members, it is important to make the following clarification: On-line (electronic) Al-Anon/Alateen meetings are a supplement to regular attendance at Al-Anon/Alateen meetings. Likewise, participation as a member in the functions of a group and personal involvement in Twelfth Step service work are important.

Human companionship and warmth cannot be totally replaced by electronic meetings; an important element to our recovery is to stop isolating ourselves. With the exception of Lone Members (e.g. those who are geographically isolated or physically unable to attend a meeting), sharing at "face to face" (f2f) or "skin meetings" is essential. Members should encourage other members to attend Al-Anon/Alateen meetings in their community.

Things to Remember about On-line meetings:

Anonymity cannot be guaranteed with the same degree of certainty or sense of commitment as face to face meetings. The degree of anonymity afforded members may also depend upon the protocol for transmission of e-mail or participation in on-line meetings of a computer subscriber service or an individual on-line meeting. Some services allow for the use of a pseudonym for sending mail and on-line participation. Members need to be aware that pseudonyms or nicknames are frequently used in the on-line world.

Use of Al-Anon/Alateen Literature, The Forum, Meeting Format and Service Materials on-line

* Please see the Policy Digest and the two Al-Anon publications, Al-Anon Spoken Here and The Al-Anon Focus for additional background.

Seventh Tradition

It is important for on-line meetings to follow the Seventh Tradition. The meetings may need to send contributions for rent (listserver) as well as to Al-Anon service arms. The following are suggestions from on-line members:

Types of On-line Meetings

On-line meetings work under various formats. The type you participate in depends upon the personal preference of each member. For those who want sharing available 24 hours per day there are e-mail meetings. For those who prefer interactive conversation there are chat room meetings at a specific time.

Meeting Formats

On-line meetings use the same meeting format as face to face meetings. Only the method of sharing is different. Any Al-Anon-related topic may be used for a meeting. A meeting format that could be used if the meeting is listed with WSO and has current permission to use CAL excerpts, is as follows: